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If You Want to Communicate Effectively...

 

What's common sense is often not common at all. Here's one case to prove it when it comes to effective communication.

 

Three dialogs are always running at the same time, and they're there regardless of whether you want them to or not. When two or more people interact the following applies, and you better be aware of it:

   
 

Operational dialog

The context in which we interact ("position")

 

Opinional dialog

The feelings behind words and how they are perceived ("relation")

 

Optimal dialog

How we communicate ("perfection")

   

If you're mindful of all three, you'll experience high levels of mutual understanding, and the likelihood of influencing others increases.

 
 

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"An increase in influence is the one ingredient that influences life most...

...everyone wants more influence for varying reasons. They just don't know it yet.

(E. Vidar Top)

 
 
Someone once said to me: "There is no such thing as the perfect sale." I disagree. I very much disagree!

It reminds me of a conversation I had a long time ago. One of my CEO's said to me: "If the customer happily signed the contract then you've done your job. You exceeded your budget - you should be happy." But I wasn't.

On these pages I'll make it my mission to tell you what kind of sale does make me happy. I also invite you to help me get that insight - how selling should be - by telling me what you think.

Thank you for helping out ;-)

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